And the hits just keep on coming....

Discussion in 'Australian Motorcycles' started by Teddie, Jan 18, 2006.

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    Teddie Guest

    That sucks Dale, our thoughts are with you.

    Teddie, Jan 18, 2006
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    Dale Porter Guest

    For those that don't know our history, Cat and I met when William was 3 months old. Since then I have been as a father to him
    looking after him, whereas his bio-father, although obligated to have contact via a court order, rarely used to get in touch.

    We did however over the Chrstimas break send William to his bio-father for visitation (something that had not occurred all year).

    Now with Jeanette gone, they are refusing to return William. Not even to his own mother's funeral. They are claiming Custodial

    So not only do I have to bury my wife next week, I also have to start court proceedings to re-gain custody of the boy I call my son.
    Dale Porter, Jan 18, 2006
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    G-S Guest

    That is totally fucked!!!

    Although going on his past record it shouldn't surprise me :(((

    G-S, Jan 18, 2006
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    jase Guest

    also unsurprised, and totally appaled

    jase, Jan 18, 2006
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    corks Guest

    sorry to hear , hope you win over all this crap

    corks, Jan 18, 2006
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    TB Guest

    Surely anyone in their right mind would see through this guy. Hope
    getting his dirty hands off William will be easier than expected. Let
    us know if you need anything.

    TB, Jan 18, 2006
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    Will_S Guest

    One error in your post. It should read " I also have to start court
    proceedings to re-gain custody of my son"
    Will_S, Jan 18, 2006
  8. Perhaps I'm being a litle harsh, but just rock up at this bastard's house
    with the many many bikers who are going to turn up for Cat's funeral, and
    collect your son.. Problem solved ?

    (Feel free to ignore me, I just used a bottle of wine as stress relief for
    the hell of a week this has been so far..)

    Damien Gardner Jnr, Jan 18, 2006
  9. Hmmm... could be a job for Unky Wee Wee!
    Pisshead Pete, Jan 18, 2006
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    Aido Guest

    Heres hoping it all goes your way Dale. It's something I've thought
    about & I hope I never have to face myself, My now 7yr old Step daughter
    I have raised as my own since she was 1yr old.
    I've obviously missed something here, What happened to Cat? If it's ok
    to ask.
    My Condolences to you & the kids.

    Aido, Jan 18, 2006
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    Aido Guest

    No need to reply to what happened, Just read the Cat post.
    All the best Dale. You've got the best comunity of friends anybody could
    ask for around you here.

    Aido, Jan 18, 2006
  12. That would go down well in court for final custody.
    Biggus La Great., Jan 18, 2006
  13. Keep your head up Mr. You will be ok in the end.

    After you win, THEN a good visit to him by the boys is in order.
    Biggus La Great., Jan 18, 2006
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    JL Guest

    In which case get your partner to get a will done, it's not the final
    word but it helps

    JL, Jan 18, 2006
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    BandeeBikie Guest

    here, unless you had adopted the youngster. Best to let it rest without bad
    blood and legal cost, as I'm sure the lad will miss you and want to visit
    sooner rather than later. If you just try to deal with the funeral etc and
    that over before turning your attention to the matter of your "son." In the
    future you'll want him to have a good life no matter who he's living with so
    as long as he's being treated well, and you are able to have him visit you
    he will be getting the best possible life. I'm sure he will always love you.
    Please think hard before you act. Sometimes it's better to bend with the
    wind and live to fight another day. Hope it works out.
    BandeeBikie, Jan 18, 2006
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    Toosmoky Guest

    Blood may be against you but you've had a constant and lifelong relationship
    with this boy.

    Right now he needs stability and a familiar environment.

    I wish you all the best.
    Toosmoky, Jan 18, 2006
  17. Sorry, I forgot to add what I thought was the obvious part (obvious only to
    me, obviously).. - Return him after the funeral, then get started with the
    court case.. I just think it's seriously messed up that that Will isn't
    being allowed to go to his mother's funeral.


    Damien Gardner Jnr, Jan 18, 2006
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    Theo Bekkers Guest

    Don't get your hopes up too high. It's the family court.

    Theo Bekkers, Jan 19, 2006
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    Theo Bekkers Guest

    That don't mean shit in the family court though.

    Theo Bekkers, Jan 19, 2006
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    Mad-Biker Guest

    I think you will need an emergency family law court sitting - or a
    compramise with a family law court agreement done via a solicitor (out of
    famlaw court)..

    it sure is a kick in the teath while your down..
    Mad-Biker, Jan 19, 2006
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