[QUOTE="G-S"] Telling people who are hurting, who have done thier best to be inclusive.. to fuck off... is... unfckngblvble. I would have been happy to ride with anyone Gerry, there were plenty of posts on the OCAU.MC and on OZVFR web forums and some in NETRIDER as well as messages in the IRC channels #Ausmoto and #OCAU.MC and #Motorcycles and I copied the funeral arrangements over to here and posted them here as well. What the more information could you possibly want?!? Would you rather there had been TV advertisments or don't you watch TV either *sigh* [/QUOTE] It doesn't appear to have been a notice issue. It's more a case of Gerry's neurotisism and selfishness getting in the way. No-one said to him directly "Gerry, we want you with us. Please join us". Despite the fact it was an open invitation to all motorcyclists on the forums Boky was involved in, Gerry wanted to feel included by being given a personal invitation. And when that wasn't forthcoming, he stamps his feet, sticks his tongue out and claims there's an in-crowd that have excluded him. At a time of great sadness for a great many people, Gerry felt it neccesary to stand up and say "Oi! What about me? Look at me!" And quite frankly, that sort of petulant carry-on and raspberry blowing makes me feel far less likely to want him around.